Heidi Klumย had been married twice before meeting her husbandย Tom Kaulitzย โ€“ and as the saying goes, the third timeโ€™s the charm.

The 52-year-old opened up about her relationship in a new interview withย People. Heidi shared that she had no intention of tying the knot once more and almost didn’t go out the evening she met her husband.

“I really wanted to stay home,” she recalled. “But then I gave myself a little kick in the butt.”

The German supermodel’s attendance at a friend’s party turned into “the sliding door moment” of her life. Heidi was first married to celebrity hairstylistย Ric Pipinoย in 1997, followed by a seven-year marriage to British singerย Seal. However, her relationship with Tom offered her a “clean slate”.

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Heidi confessed that it was challenging not to carry emotional baggage from her past relationships into her new one โ€“ until Tom firmly drew the line. “At first I wanted to [project] what I had learned from different men I had been withโ€ฆ like ‘Ooh, this reminds me of something that happened, is that a flag?'”‘ she admitted.

Tom gave his partner an ultimatum early on in their relationship that allowed theirย romanceย to blossom freely. Heidi recalled her husband having said: “Don’t do this to me, because I’m not this person, I’m not that person. Scratch everything. I have to have a fair chance.”

Keeping their romance alive

It seems Tom is his wife’s biggest supporter when it comes to her modeling projects. “He loves sitting there, and I go into the changing room and I come out with a different outfit on,” shared Heidi.

“‘He loves me in a miniskirt. He loves me in pumps. He just loves when I get all dolled up.”

However, Heidi went on to note that marriage hasn’t changed her bold personality. “This is pretty much what you get. I’m pretty loud and you know I’m there. What keeps the relationship fresh?” she said.

She credited “stolen weekends,” “handwritten notes,” and carving out time for each other with keeping their spark alive โ€“ plus, she teased, “a few things I canโ€™t share.”

The couple, who tied the knot back in 2019, have a 17-year age difference that has frequently been met with public scrutiny. “When our door closes at home, I don’t really care so much what happens around us,” Heidi added.

“‘I’ve learned things from my husband that I didn’t know I was capable of doing.”

Tom and Heidi’s best photos

Cannes Film Festival

Matching ensembles

Big smiles

GRAMMY Awards

Golden Globes

Heidi Klum reveals younger husband’s relationship ultimatum: ‘Don’t do this to me’ย ยฉ Getty Images

Heidi Klum and Tom Kaulitz married in 2019ย ยฉ Provided by Hello! Canada

Heidi Klum and Seal

The couple keep their romance aliveย ยฉ Provided by Hello! US

Tom is his wife’s biggest supporter

Tom Kaulitz, Heidi Klum at the

Tom Kaulitz and Heidi Klum on Cannes carpet

Tom Kaulitz and Heidi Klum attend the amfAR gala Cannes 2025 presented by Chopard at Hotel du Cap-Eden-Roc on May 22, 2025 in Cap d’Antibes, Franceย ยฉ Getty Images for amfAR

Heidi Klum and Tom Kaulitz attend the 67th Annual GRAMMY Awards at Crypto.com Arena on February 02, 2025 in Los Angeles, California

Heidi Klum, Tom Kaulitz during the 82nd Annual Golden Globes held at The Beverly Hilton on January 05, 2025 in Beverly Hills, Californiaย ยฉ Getty